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Most children live in an idyllic world of saturday cartoons and the loving care of their parents. Unfortuantely, there comes a time when a child will experience death for the first time and it becomes the responsibility of parents to educate their young children on the subject of death and dying. Most children do experience death in one form or another during their childhood, be it losing a pet, a family member, or something else.

1. Keep It Simple

Don't avoid talking about death with your children, nor should you explain it in such a way that would instill a fear of death. Thankfully for parents, it is not likely that your child will have to deal with a family member dying, but about forty percent of children do lose a pet at one time or another. Remember that the death of a pet is a traumatic experience for your child and it should be treated seriously. What they are feeling is very real, and deserves your respect.

2. Discussing Death With Your Children

Children may not understand things like concepts as opposed to things they can touch and smell. Always explain things to children using familiar words and metaphors. If you wish, you can use this as an opportune time to go over the other big talk you will need to have with your children.

3. Recommended Parenting Tips

- Different children take loss differently

- If your child loses a pet, be sure to hold a goodbye funeral for the pet

- Children under two still feel loss but coping is easier