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Salvation From The Slump: 5 Great Ways to End Your Dating Drought
Theres nothing worse than being in a slump.
Or so they say.
Ive been there, chances are youve been there, and I have a good friend whos there right now. Its affected just about every guy, and is the ultimate discouragement in our pursuit of womenif you let it be. For all its negative undertones, being in a slump doesnt have to be the worst thing ever. There are actually benefits to taking a timeout from girls, and the sooner you see these benefits, the sooner youll actually get out of your drought and into the female zone youre seeking.
The first step out of a slump is to BELIEVE that youll get out of the slump. May be harder than it sounds, but believe me, its crucial to adopt that mindset. The guys who are quickest to get out of a drought are those who dont throw a pity party for themselves, who dont flee back to their exs in desperation, and who remain focused on the other parts of their life, the parts that will attract women to them in the first place: work, sports, friends, etc.
My friend Sal is in a slump for the first time in a while. He dated one girl for 5 full years, and now that he finally broke up with her, he doesnt know what to do. Its been about a month, which is a lot shorter time period than a lot of guys I know who have been through the same, and hes already getting cranky, depressed, and tempted to go back to his girlfriend, despite the fact that he knows shes not right for him.
But in situations like his, you have to HOLD YOUR GROUND. Yeah, it blows being in a slump when it seems like no girl is into you. Its frustrating as hell not getting any love or sex for a long stretch. But you know what? Its also rewarding, which brings me to my next Slump Salvation tidbit:
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